Spirit Signs 101: A Communication Guide for Those Left behind (PART 1). “When do our loved ones in Spirit actually send us a sign and what message do they have for us?” (Practical Examples and Clarification)

Unfortunately we are all going experience the loss of a loved one throughout our lives.  Nonetheless, as awareness awakens, we know that they are still by our side, guiding us, and they let us know this by sending us signs. Despite this, amidst grief and our own rational thought, we can feel overwhelmed making it hard for us to distinguish whether a sign is actually a sign from our passed loved or not. This, however, does not need to be the case. As our loved ones in spirit return to their original form of pure energy, the following series of articles will try to serve as a ‘translator’ so that you may be able to understand how their love transcends time and space and that our loved ones continue to play an active role in our lives. Our loved ones are now just a thought away! As the mere thought of them and the love in our hearts bring them close to us, read about the most common ways they ‘interact’ with us and what message they may have for us!

Electronic and Electricity Disturbances

When the lights flicker it’s often someone from the other side trying to contact you, so just ask in your mind, “Who is this please”? A face or a name will come to you. Don’t dismiss it and think oh it’s my imagination just trust your thoughts.

Spirit may also try to communicate with you by switching on and off the lights in response to a question you may have asked. It may verify its presence when suddenly your new light bulbs seem to blow too quickly.

Another way spirit manipulates electronics is by having items such as TV’s or radios switching on and off, changing channels or moving to static. Since your passed loved one is now pure energy themselves, this is probably the easiest way for them to show you that they are present and still by your side.

Sometimes while watching TV or listening to the radio, spirit may increase the volume without any rational explanation.  Listen carefully to what is being played or said. It could be a dialogue or a message that spirit would like you to know.

 Items Disappearing & Reappearing / Items appearing in front of you out of nowhere.

Sometimes your loved one in spirit will bring your attention to one of their favorite objects to show you that they are there with you. Spirit also likes to misplace everyday items. I always seem to have a problem finding my keys even though I know where I specifically placed them. When this occurs, I know it is a sign from a specific loved one in spirit, who is verifying their presence, because he would always lose his keys when living! Take note of where you actually DO find your misplaced object. Look around this space carefully! There could be something there with an additional message for you!

A popular object that spirit likes to leave at your feet or by your side is a coin! I will never forget waiting at a bus stop at night, and although there were many people there, nobody saw the coin shining in the night but me. That was a definite sign from spirit, especially if you were thinking about them while going to the bus stop! In this case, study and photograph the coin on both sides. The year could be a significant one. The face could also be someone who had some special attribute which was the same as a passed loved one, or could have come from the same place as them. There could be something else that is special on that coin which will allow you to understand who it is from and why!


 Music : Songs and Lyrics

Often people will hear a piece of music that reminds them of someone that has passed over. You may turn on the radio and hear a piece of music that was played at their funeral, it’s just them saying hello! The same definitely applies if you hear their favorite song or a song you shared suddenly out of the blue. It is definitely a sign if this song isn’t a hit at the time you hear it! Rest assured spirit is playing this song just for you.

The same applies if you are thinking about a particular matter or someone and suddenly your heart misses a beat and you find yourself focusing listening very closely to the lyrics of a particular song. Know that spirit has turned your attention to these specific lyrics and is talking to you!

Changes in Room Temperature

You might notice it if you are talking about someone who has passed or thinking about them and you get the goosebumps – this is also their way of popping in to say:  “Hi!” As we are warm blooded and of a denser energy, spirit will cause a change of temperature when they come into our own energy field. This might feel as if you have left a window open and you feel a light draft. This can be felt quite strongly in confined areas, or when you are lying down to rest for the night. Many times, as your body relaxes before it goes to sleep, you might feel a slight breeze kissing your face, caressing your head of even touching your arms and hands. You might feel a slight pressure at the foot of your bed, as if someone is sitting there and watching you as you go to sleep.

Number Sequences and Clocks Stopping

Sometimes people will look at the clock and keep seeing the same time over and over again – this can be at any time of the day. There is a number that’s being shown to a lot of people lately, it’s the number 11.11. This is a special spirit number because at this time of day or night there is a doorway opening from the other side and spirit has one minute to repeat over and over again our hopes and wishes, then the door closes. It’s a gateway of very high energy. The number 11 is a master number in numerology so putting it together with another 11 is very powerful. So, next time you see 11.11, you have one minute to think of all things positive.

You might find the clock stopping at a certain time that someone passed over and this is their way of letting you know that they are close by.

The same may occur if you are sleeping and you suddenly wake up at the time when somebody passed over.  In my case, it quite often that I wake up at 5.45am, which is the exact time that someone extremely dear to me passed over.

Another common way spirit may use time to tell you that they are near is when you are suddenly looking at your watch and you see a specific time of significance for them, or a repetitive number sequence.  In the first case, stop in your tracks, and remember what was going through your mind just before you saw this. The number is either a sign of recognition, or just them telling you that they are near you. Regarding the latter, please check the message they may have for you, my checking its meaning online.


 Number Plates, Signs, Billboards, Graffiti.

From time to time when we are driving and stop at traffic lights for example, we might notice that the car in front of has a number plate that reminds us of someone. The letters of the number plate could be part of a person’s name or their initials. I will never forget the time when I was prompted by a memory to check out a car that was the same as a passed loved one of mine had, only to see his nickname printed on the number plate. The numbers of the number plate could very well correspond to an important anniversary or date. Rest assured! It’s a sign! It’s confirmation that spirit is close by. In this particular example, the numbers corresponded to the day we met!

The same occurs when you are minding your own business and lost in your thoughts, missing someone in spirit. If suddenly you raise your head and see a message in response to a question that you have asked on a billboard, know that spirit is answering your question. It will always be combined with another sign to verify if this sign is from your passed loved one. For example, I was walking along the road, and I was wondering if my passed loved one knows what has been done in his memory. Suddenly, I saw a billboard in front of me saying:  “I Know!” So I wondered and asked spirit: “Is this from you my dear loved one or am I imagining things again?” At that moment, I just looked up and saw my loved one in spirit’s name, in graffiti, spray painted on the wall! Needless to say I got my answer!


Phones ringing once / Phones ringing with high pitched sound on the other side/ no caller ID/ mumbled stutter

This is a very interesting one, I have had quite a few people say they still have their loved one’s mobile phone and that their own phones have rung with their loved one’s number coming up on the screen. Spirit still thinks of their phone as their connection to you and that’s what they would do if they wanted to speak to you, but of course if you were to pick up you would not hear them. Sound on the other side is a very different vibration to the sound on earth and you need to really tune in to what you are hearing from the spirit would, which takes practice!

One easily example to understand that you have received a call from a loved one who has passed is this: You have a loved one on your mind and you miss them. The phone rings suddenly and rings only once.  That is definitely your loved one saying: “Hello! I am here listening! Talk to me!”

Here is another example of spirit phone communication. You are talking about a passed loved one, when the phone suddenly rings. You pick up only to hear a muffled or high pitched deafening sound. Depending on the conversation about the loved one happening at the time, this call could be spirit’s contribution to the discussion. If the conversation is on aggravating terms, I have learnt that spirit is saying:  “Don’t hold your breath! Stop the conversation! Your words are falling on deaf ears.  I know how you feel, but let it go!” If the conversation is on good and nostalgic terms, then it could mean: “I can hear you! I am here and I love and miss you too!

When the phone rings, make note of your thoughts and the time that this ‘call’ took place. The message could be in the explanation of the number sequence!

In this modern era of  smart phones and internet communication, the sudden appearance of their internet profiles on social media or if a picture of them saved on your smartphones also suddenly appears in front of you, be sure that this is also a ‘spirit call’. The first Facebook meme you see immediately after you thought of them could also be a message from your passed loved one!

When spirit has tried all the above means of ‘calling’ you and you still haven’t received the message, then they will suddenly bring through a call from someone still living and that meant a lot to them. When you get a call, out of the blue, from their best friend or a family member you haven’t spoken to for ages, and the topic of conversation is your passed loved-one, rest assured it is your loved one who is really making the call!

These are just few of the ways that our loved ones in spirit use to communicate with us. This ‘spiritual translator’ aims to serve as a bridge between you and your loved ones to remind you that there is no need to ‘get lost in translation’ when it comes to contacting your loved ones! Spirit communication doesn’t understand the concept of language. For this reason communicating with our loved ones is not by doing so in some strange foreign language, but through the love we have for them in our hearts and that remain imprinted in our soul!

Stay tuned for the following parts of this series!

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